Ideal End State

Good Morning,

I was going through our data and found a disturbing stat which is About 90% of you that read this weekly issue don’t share it with your friends… come on, it can’t be that Hard, before you continue reading take a minute to share it with your friends.

I promise you this, I’ll never substitute quality for quantity because your experience matters.

so once again JUST DO IT! 😁

Thank you.

Now back to the issue,

Have you heard of the concept known as THE IDEAL END STATE?

I’m sure at this point you all think I make these theories up but trust me I don’t 🙂, it’s actually a real thing.

The Ideal end state in relation to life is basically how you want your life to turn out… most of us don’t really plan or some of us end up panning way too much without taking action (Procrastinating) both scenario are bad but if you are reading this I hope you are one of us that plan and take action at the same time and if you are not don’t worry it’s never too late to start hell I’m also just figuring it out because sometimes I feel like I don’t know what I want my ideal end state to be so I’m just going to the exercise hear and hope you find it inspiring enough to take action in your own life.

I think the best possible way to do this exercise is by thinking of what I want people to say about me when I’m dead, what I want my legacy to be when it’s all said and done.

So what do I want that to be?

Life to me is classified into four segment

• Work Life

• Relationship

• Health

• Personal Life

I’ll go over each of them and what I want my Ideal end state to be for all of them.

WORK LIFE

I’ve always been up front about this, I like money but the crazy thing is I’m not driven by money, believe it or not and I truly believe that money is an aftermath of providing value.

Hence why for this segment I just want to be a successful entrepreneur, I want to have a couple of successful businesses that provide value and can outlive me which will also make me insane amount of money so that I don’t have to work hard in the later stage of my life even though knowing myself I’ll still work. 😂

Honestly I don’t want to work for anyone, I’ll rather work on my average enterprise that make me a decent amount of money monthly that work in some big company, building other people’s business simply because I don’t want to be miserable, I mean I’m already spending 7 years studying a course I absolutely hate so why put myself through that pain again?!

RELATIONSHIP

Under this category, you have your Family, Friends and your Love life.

Under the friendship category, I want to be the kind of friend that pushes his mates to reach their full potential and never settle for anything average, that’s basically it.

For Family and my love life… it’s really simple I think a loving Son, a caring brother is just perfect and as for my romantic life, I just want my partner to live a really comfortable life, have a husband that can solve 100% percent of her problems or at least try, I want my partner to have a partner that is mentally stable enough to treat her well, be a role model to our kids and just all round a person she never regrets taking a chance on.

Yeah that’s way too cheesy for me 💀… but it’s true fortunately.

HEALTH

Without good health, everything else becomes worthless, sure I want to make money, own a business empire, have a beautiful loving wife but I won’t enjoy it if I’m not healthy and I’m not sure the people around me will even like to be near me.

So I want to live a healthy life, the life might be long or short but I hope it’s healthy.

PERSONAL LIFE

My Nigerian People will say “the koko”

everything above leads to one thing, I want to be proud of myself when it’s all said and done… and I can tell you this, if everything above does come true my purpose in life is complete.

In summary… I want a healthy life, loving family and insane amount of money.

How do I go about achieving it truthfully I have no Idea and I think that is the best part, that I have no freaking Idea.

But one thing I know is that if I behave like who I want to be then over time I will become that person.

So little acts like tracking my finances will help me in wealth accumulation, being there for my friends and helping them when I can helps with the loving friend goal, playing tennis, staying away from unhealthy foods (Sugar) and working out will help with the health thing.

Waking up around 5am to start my day when others are still sleeping will give me a head start in life, reading books will improve the way I think and taking more actions means I have a higher chance of succeeding that others.

For my relationship, calling my mom and dad at least 2x weekly will go a long way, making time to go on random dates with my partner, checking up on her, not being abusive, listening to her problems will take care of the good partner thing.

I know we can all get overwhelmed about life but trust me if you do the right things daily, you will never have to worry about what will happen in the future because guess what?… It’s going to be great and it will take care of itself.

Life is simple, have the courage to be different and don’t ever over complicate it.

Let me know what your Ideal end state is for all the four categories.

Thank you for reading.

Have a fantastic week.

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Quote of the day

"Fake it until you make it! Act as if you had all the confidence you require until it becomes your reality."

— Brian Tracy

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